Today I am going to talking about “Is the Fear of Rejection Keeping You Broke and What you can do about it!
So let’s talk about this, some of you may be like me rejected all of your life, but desire to have more. But because the rejection goes so deep it’s not easy to overcome it and as a result, it keeps you broke.
Well, today I am here to tell you that God does not want you in that kind of bondage. He reminds us in His word that he has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind. (2 Timothy 1:7)
When I look at that scripture I am reminded that if I have fear of rejection it does not come from God.
But from the enemy. But what God has given me is POWER, LOVE, and A SOUND MIND!
Therefore if the fear of rejection is keeping you broke it is the enemy of your soul. And if you allow rejection to control your life you are allowing the enemy to control your life and bank account!
Believe it or not, fearing rejection affects every area of your life including your marriage. Your husband watches you get on the computer every day to build this business but he sees no fruit, now he begins to doubt you, say it doesn’t work, discourage you and the list goes on. Now you are even more discouraged!
Is that you?
Let’s talk about some things you can do to turn things around.
#1 You must do some inner work. The thing that is stopping you is in your head.
In order to change what you believe you must first change what you believe, by reminding yourself of what Gods word says and His word says he has not given you the spirit of fear….
Next, you will want to create a control journal of what you want your life to look like…
You’ll want to create a morning routine that involves praying and asking God to deliver you from fear ….Here is a live training I did on this subject, including creating a control journal that will you overcome rejection and become more confident.
Twice a day read out loud what you want your perfect day to look like and don’t forget to include doing something every day that makes you uncomfortable.
Write out rejection affirmation speaking the opposite of what you feel over your life.
To take it a step further turn them into Afformations, asking yourself why am I xyz (wealthy)?
Read a book and listen to audios that talk about rejection and getting over the fear. Soon you will discover rejection is apart of the process that everyone goes through.
Everyone is not going to say yes, the ones that do say no may be saying no not right now.
It’s important that you marry the process and divorce the outcome.
Don’t worry about the outcome, just keep going and every time you get a rejection ask yourself what can I learn from this experience?
Don’t be hard on yourself, the ones who say no are missing out on the amazing opportunity.
Also, you must believe in what you are doing wholeheartedly!!!
Refuse to allow rejection to define you, Gods word says you are fearfully and wonderfully made. Therefore anything else that comes to your thoughts is a lie!
Last but not least you can’t afford to stop looking for rejection if you have struggled with this, thorne in your side. You must make it a daily habit to look for rejection.
Don’t forget to track your results by keeping a record of the actions you are taking so that you can reflect on what you did and what you need to do differently. Regardless of how many rejections you get keep going, eventually you will get to your yeses and a bank account this is overflowing with cash!!!
This, my friend, is the key to breaking free from rejection and an empty bank account!!
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